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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 11:26

How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Ask yourself:

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Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do men first look at a woman's chest instead of their face?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

When you visit a store, do you go to shop or buy?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What I need from you?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.